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The hardest part of leaving isn’t the leaving.
Identity is not a fixed internal object. It is relational, contextual, and held partly in place by the people and environments around us. When you relocate, that entire architecture is dismantled almost overnight. Which goes some way to explaining why so many people find themselves, at some point after a move, not quite recognising who they are being.

Kirstan Lloyd
Apr 115 min read


Should Psychotherapists Promote Real-World Relationships?
Should therapy stay in the room, or reach into the real world? This post explores why relationships matter for emotional health — and whether psychotherapists should actively support clients to build and sustain real-life connections.

Kirstan Lloyd
Jun 6, 20256 min read


Dr Jekyll, Mr Hyde, and the Neurobiology of Connection: Reflections on World Bipolar Day
Exploring Bipolar Disorder through Jekyll and Hyde, oxytocin, and the healing power of connection and psychotherapy.

Kirstan Lloyd
Mar 29, 20256 min read
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